"O" Allaah ! Whoso is appointed as walee
(governor) over the affairs of my Ummah and showed leniency to them, You may be
lenient to him and whoso dealt with undue harshness, he may be put to diversity
and be entangled in difficulty." So '0' Servant of Allaah ! be lenient
while calling to the people, do not show harshness lest they may dislike the
religion. You should never be among those who harm others commit excesses, and
you should not give offence to others either by your fierce attitude, ignorance,
way of talking or by some other way relating to your conduct or behaviour. On
the contrary, you should be humble, patient, soft ill speech, good in
conversation so that the person to whom you are addressing may be impressed, and
be able to appreciate your point of view, and ultimately may become familiar
with your mission, and start feeling obliged to you. Remember undue strictness
creates estrangement, and does not bring the people close, it separates them,
and does not bring them together. And lastly a preacher must possess excellent
moral character and conduct for carrying out his mission. He should act upon
what he preaches, and becomes the best example of what he teaches to the people,
he should not be contrary to what he preaches or what he is forbidding others to
do. Allah save us: Such are those persons who are unsuccessful; but those
muslims will be rewarded who call the people to the truth and themselves act
upto it. They are engrossed and devoted in their mission with perseverance,
showing those things which are forbidden. Allaah, the Almighty, says:
“0, you who
believe ! Why do you say that which you do not do? It is most hateful in the sight of
Allaah that you say that which you do not.” (61 : 2,3)
And Allaah, the Most Exalted, condemning the Jews, (for
their failure to act as what they preached to others) says:
“Enjoin you
righteousness upon mankind while you yourselves forget (to practise it)? And you are
readers of the scripture! Have you then no sense?” (2 : 44)
An authentic hadeeth of the Prophet
(S.A.W.) says:"On the Day of Judgment a person wil be brought forth and put into
the fire of Hell. His intestines will come out, and he will start moving in a circle like
a donkey moving round a stone mill, Then other inmates of the Hell will gather round him,
and will say: Oh such and such person ! How is it that you are in such a condition? Did
you not enjoin righteous actions and prevent people from doing the forbidden things? He
will say; Yes, I used to enjoin good actions but did not act upto them myself, and forbade
people from the forbidden acts but myself used to do." (Muslim)
Similar is the case of the person
who although calls the people towards Allaah, asks them to do right and forbids them to do
the forbidden things, yet he himself acts contrary to his preachings. Alllaah save us.
Therefore the most important aspect of the conduct of a preacher is that he should be an
embodiment of the principles he preaches, (that he should himself do what he preaches to
others and shun those actions which he is asking others not to do). Apart from good
morals, excellent pattern of conduct, given to patience, advocating practice of patience
to others he should be sincere in his mission, He should be full of sincerity in his
efforts so that the virtues of goodness and bliss may reach the people. Efforts should be
made to keep the people away from vice; at the same time they should be invited towards
virtue. The merit of good morals is to invoke Allaah's help to show them the right path,
and He may be implored to enable them accept the truth; Allaah may help them to tread on
the right path. Show them the way to Truth, bear hardships with patience, and at the same
time pray for them to receive guidance. When such a situation arose and the Prophet of
Allaah () was told about the tribe of
Daws that it has turned defiant, the Prophet () prayed:
"O" Allaah! Bestow
guidance upon the tribesmen of Daws".
Your mission wants you to pray to Almighty Allaah for
blessing your audience to get the truth and to help them to act according to the
Divine command. Adopt patience individually and exhort companions to be patient
never express despair or hoplessness; never say to them anything except the good
word; never commit any excess on them, nor say a bad word to them, which may
create hatred against religion in their hearts. But if anybody committed acts of
aggression and created different situation, then he will be dealt with
differently according to the commandment of Allaah.
“And argue
not with the people of the scripture unless it be (in a way) that is better, save with
such of them as do wrong.” (29 : 46)