‏الجهاد والسير‏ : Hadeeth No:4405 It has been narrated on the authority of Abu Wa'il who said: Sahal b. Hunaif stood up on the Day of Siffin and said: O ye people, blame yourselves (for want of discretion) ; we were with the Messenger of Allaah (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) on the Day of Hudaibiya. If we had thought it fit to fight...

الرقائق‏ : Hadeeth No:6603 Usama b. Zaid reported Allaah's Messenger (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) as saying: I have not left after me any (chance) of turmoil more injurious to men than the harm done to the men because of women....