‏الزهد والرقائق‏ : Hadeeth No:7095 'A'isha reported that Allaah's Messenger (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) had died in a state that they could afford to cat two things only: water and dates....

‏الجهاد والسير‏ : Hadeeth No:4300 The Messenger of Allaah (may peace he upon him) has been reported by Anas b. Malik to have said: Show leniency; do not be hard; give solace and do not create aversion....